I admit that when I encounter children whose parents do not take their roles seriously and do a less-than- adequate job, I learnt that the most important job in the world is entrusted to people who have little or no traning.
Let us consider these ten strategies for improve parenting that will be beneficial to our everyday-to-day parenting life.
1.REMEMBER YOUR CHILDHOOD
This is a simple concept,yet an invaluable parenting skill.Children today came programmed with the same basic emotions children always had.Those feelings are part of the software bundle over by our creator include s on every make and model of humanity.
2.Make certain your children experience consequences:
make them realize their mistakes. Remember that hardships can be good.This is one of the most difficult things to do as a parent, but sometimes we need to exhibit a little though love and let our kids suffer the natural results of their behaviour.
3.Let kids make the rule:
This is not the same as relinquishing our authority as parents. I am not suggesting that children be in charge of the parents. I am not suggesting that children be in charge of the home. But i have found out that when we let children have a voice in establishing expectation, we have a lot less trouble getting them to meet those expectations.
4.Make parenting a group effort
In previous generations, kids were not only accountable to their parents but to other relatives, their parents,friends,neighbors,and the occasional adult strangers, who all took responsibility for supervising
and instructing the community children. That doesn’t happen very often today. If we engage our brains to answer this questions,we will be forced to consider our priorities,our principles,and the choices to
consider our priorities, our principles,and the choices they lead us to make. Just asking these questions for ourselves will not guarantee we all will reach the destinations we set for ourselves. But the answer can be serve as a road map.They will show us the big picture and point us in the right direction.
5. Know your child
Treating two distinctly different children fairly does not necessarily means always treating them exactly the same.Different personalities may require different strategies to achieve to achieve the same results.
This is especially true when it comes to disciplinary techniques. Some children respond to punishment,others may be motivated by simple reinforcement.
6. Set high standards
set high standard for your kids,these help parenting improve better.
7.Make time together
Create time for your kids, admist your schedules. See to it that they get your undivided attention.
8.Take is cheap and invaluable
We are always looking for times in our schedules when we can be together and talk. Mealtime are good starting points. We also regularly try to sit down as a family and read from the bible.
Kids today have a lot of things going on in their lives,a lot of things going on in their lives,a lot of issues to deal with. Unless you sit down with them regularly to give them unpressured time to talk,you may never
know what those issues are.Most of us know that listening is a key element in any communication,but is doubly important for parents to remember to listen to their kids.
9.Marry the right person
This is the single best strategy i know for insuring that you raise healthy,happy kids to productive adulthood. It is amazing to me how many people choose a mate for life without ever considering the fact that the
children produced by their marriage are going to be profoundly and permanently affected by the example they see. Learn to choose the right partner from now.
10. Make parenting a true priority